Girls, Make First Move

As men, we are used to the burden of making the first move. It is never fully comfortable for us, but we do, and I think we get better at it over the time. Some of you out there have done this, and others have only hoped inside that the hunk of a man you noticed would come up to you, he failed to do so. There could be many reasons why you lack the initiative and ambition. Or may you stick to the old fashioned route, or are scared of rejection, or you simply don’t know how to approach a man.

Welcome to the men’s world, we too hate rejection and embarrassment, and some of us like me have no clue how to approach women. One thing I can tell you that we men do not mind a women approaching us. For us those women stands out, and we can determine a few things about her. Her bold, no-holds-barred approach tells us that she is confident, spontaneous, brave, outgoing, to the point and thinks outside the box. All these attractive qualities makes you appear Humble and Real. I think you should never hinder your chance and opportunity by thinking you are too good to approach a man or assume that he knows you are attracted/ in love to him. Many a time we never get hint about what’s in the mind of girls or sometimes we don’t go for any further move because we are scared of losing a friend.

We men definitely appreciate it when a women makes the first advance, and I know one guy who has ever complained or made a girl feel bad about approaching him. If you don’t want it immediately, then make cold approach, send him few signs to gauge his reaction. Being forward and going after what you want in life is essential to success in any realm, it puts everything out on the table and does not beat around the bush, therefore giving you more opportunities. If you are shy, just go for it, and I promise it won’t be as bad as you are imagining. Even if the guy is not attracted to you, chances are he will be respectful back. Or worst that can happen is ‘No’. In the end you will learn to become more confident and not be so shy about approaching a man and people in general.

This is essential if you wish to engage in conversation or get to know someone better. Just try it out, you will learn more about yourself than you ever thought.

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