Learn To Say “NO”

What do you expect when you do a favour or help them?

A lot of people would say, they demand NOTHING, because then it wouldn’t be called a favour, or it wouldn’t be called a “HELP”.

WRONG!!! When you do a favour to someone, it’s their sole responsibility to pay their regards to it in any way. At least a sense of gratitude should be there. You deserve it, and you should always expect it. If you don’t look for anything and keep on doing favours to people then you won’t be called a selfless man or “Mahatma”. You will be called a Fool. It’s all about give and take. Give and at least take some respect. You owned it by giving.

This is the reality of today’s world. People will sit on your head and act like they are your boss and you are their slave. They take advantage of your helping behaviour and fuck you up in the process.

It’s better to draw a line for that. Because people won’t remember how many times you have helped them, they will always remember the time when you didn’t. Always remember – If not “Favour For A Favour” then it should be at least ‘Favour For An Honest “Thank You”.’

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