Happens Thrice

 


They say love happens only once, but life often proves otherwise. Love is not always about finding one person and staying with them forever. Sometimes, it takes more than one love story to teach us what love truly means. They say love happens three times in life, and each time, it teaches us something new.

Innocent One

The first love is like the first rain of the season, fresh, exciting, and full of dreams. It often happens in our teenage years or early adulthood. This love is innocent, free from complications, and full of hopes for a perfect future. It makes us believe in fairytales, in soulmates, in the idea that love is meant to last forever. This is the kind of love where we do silly things, write long messages, and smile endlessly while thinking about the person. But most first loves do not last. They are like a beautiful dream that we wake up from, realizing that love alone is not enough to keep a relationship alive. The heartbreak that follows teaches us our first lesson; “Love is Beautiful, but it is Not always Permanent.”

Painful One

The second love is different. It comes when we are a little older and a little wiser. This love is deep and intense, but also full of struggles. This is the love that teaches us about pain, betrayal, and disappointment. It shows us the harsh reality of relationships; the fights, the misunderstandings, the heartbreaks. This is the love that changes us forever. It teaches us what we truly need in a partner and what we cannot tolerate. Sometimes, it is unbalanced; one person loves more than the other. Sometimes, it is passionate but toxic. We hold on, thinking that love means sacrifice, but eventually, we realize that “No Love is Worth Losing Ourselves.” When this ends, it breaks us completely. But in that pain, we grow. We become stronger, wiser, and more aware of what love should and should not be.

Unexpected One

The third love is different from the first two. It comes when we least expect it, and it is nothing like what we imagined. This love does not follow the rules of society or the perfect image we had in our mind. It just happens, and it feels right. This is the love that finally feels easy. There are no unnecessary dramas, no proving points, no constant battles. This allows us to be ourselves. It is patient, kind, and understanding. It is built on friendship, trust, and mutual respect. This makes us realize “why the first two did not work out.” Every heartbreak, every tear, every lesson was preparing us for this. It is the love that finally stays because it is real, effortless, and meant to be.

Why Thrice?

Love happens Three times because each love teaches us something valuable. The First love shows us the magic of love. The Second love teaches us its pain. And the third love, if we are lucky enough to find it, proves that true “Love Exists, Not in Grand Gestures or Perfect Fairytales, but in the Quiet Moments of Understanding & Acceptance.” Some people find their Third love early, some take longer. And some never give up, believing that somewhere, their true love is waiting. Because in the end, love is not about how many times it happens; it is about finding the one that lasts.


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